So, Big Bear.
On Wednesday, September the 15th, I realized something – I’ve been running on fumes.
As I mentioned in a previous post, the months of July and August were two of the most stressful in my life. My Mother had some health issues that had her in and out of the hospital beginning in late June through early August, which obviously caused much concern for myself and my family. During this same period, I had a lot of planning to do for Comic-Con International, which was held the final weekend of July, and Wizard World Chicago, held just two weeks later. Planning for both shows was tough, especially so for Comic-Con where I had the largest team of reporters I’ve ever assembled at one show – 15 in total – and add to that the fact we rented a yacht and I conducted video interviews on the boat every day of the convention. While not as physically taxing as in years past, it was the most mentally taxing show I’ve worked. Then, the day after show was finished, it was time to begin planning for the Chicago show. No rest was to be had. And this was in addition to the day-to-day operations of both CBR & Boiling Point, which are plenty taxing when there’s no show to cover.
This is all a long way of saying that mentally I was in poor, poor shape. The combination of all that additional work put me behind on my regular work, which was proving hard to catch-up on. I was at times having trouble focusing, memory issues and any number of other indicators of metal fatigue. This all culminated when I woke up on the 15th and realized, “Dude, I need to relax.�
I’ve been thinking about a proper vacation for a while now for later in the year, but I realized that day I needed to take some time off right now. I needed to get away, find new surroundings and generally just relax. I also found my mental fatigue was affecting me physically and all the bike riding I had been doing had slipped by the way side. So whatever I ended up doing would have to allow for some bike riding.
So, on that morning I started looking at cabins up in Big Bear Lake. Why Big Bear? Well, I knew I wanted to do some mountain bike riding and had heard Big Bear had great cycling opportunities. I did a Google search for “big bear cabins� and came upon Big Bear Cool Cabins, who had hundreds of available cabins to choose from. I decided to go with Cloud 9, a small two-bedroom cabin that had wireless net access, a view, a TV with a DVD player and, most importantly, a hot tub. I called the cats at Cool Cabins up, booked my cabin and I was ready to go. Just me and the mountains – my excitement grew and, believe it or not, suddenly I was able to think clearer. Just the idea that I’d be in a different environment, completely relaxing for two days inspired me. The rest of the week went by slowly, but I was productive and looking forward to a great weekend.
Big Bear Lake, August 19th, 2007
And a great weekend I had. I drove up Friday afternoon and got to the cabin just fine. It wasn’t fancy — it clearly hadn’t been redecorated since 1977 — but it would serve my purposes just fine. I got the car unpacked, then went grocery shopping, cooked myself a nice meal and relaxed in the hot tub with the latest Harry Potter volume. I could feel the stress just draining away.
Saturday I woke up early and took it very easy. I cooked myself a breakfast that included French Toast and eggs, did some writing and then spent some time in the hot tub. I came back inside around noon to investigate cycling trails and decided upon the Aspen Trail, a fairly flat trail that’s 3.5 miles long each way and runs along Big Bear Lake. I also considered riding the fire trails on Snow Summit, but thought that might be above my skill level and decided to go for the easier Aspen Trail. I packed up my car and made my way into town to run some errands (I needed tools for BBQing that night).
As I drove around town, I stopped at a few stores and generally just checked the place out. As I was driving around, I saw the entrance to Snow Summit and decided I’d hit those trails — clearly finding the entrance to Snow Summit was a sign of some sort. I parked my car, unloaded my bike and made my way to the Snow Summit Sky Lift. I spoke with one of the ladies at the ticket booth who assured me after asking me where I’d ridden before that I’d be just fine on the mountain. I bought my $10 lift ticket and off I went to the top of Snow Summit.
Big Bear Lake as seen from the Snow Summit ski lift.
That’s where I got a real good look at Big Bear Lake. The view from the lift was amazing. Big Bear Lake is one absolutely gorgeous place with outdoor activities year round. I saw parasailers on the lake, as well as plenty of jet skiers, Sea Doo riders and more. The 10 minute ride to the top of the mountain was just breath taking.
As I arrived at the top of the mountain, I got on my bike and made my way to one the three trails and began my descent.
Damn, was that fun.
While much of the ride was down the mountain, there was still plenty of exercise to be had. As I rode down the mountain I hit speeds I’ve not yet hit on my bike before. While I was squarely focused on making sure I didn’t bail, I was able to occasionally take in the scenery — pine tree after pine tree surrounded me. I couldn’t hear anything else other than the sound of my tires digging into the dirt. I was having a blast.
While I’ve rode the fire trails of Topanga before, the dirt up at Snow Summit was less packed. There was more resistance because of the loosely packed dirt and I found myself sliding more than I had before. I’ve got knobby tires, but I think if I were to do that again I’d get more aggressive tires. At one point as I came around a corner I took it a bit too fast and my bike began to slide out from underneath me. I was certain I was about to bail, but I managed to get a hold of the bike and righted myself again. Disaster averted.
But then, suddenly, in the middle of the road, was a large gate impeding my ability to keep moving. What the fuck? I’m almost half way down the mountain and I can’t go any further. I picked up my cell phone to call Snow Summit to see what was what — had I gone down the wrong path somehow? Where do I go? Pointless questions because I was on the other side of the mountain and there was no cell coverage.
I decided to ride back up the mountain to talk with someone who worked there because I wasn’t certain what to do next. Talk about getting some serious exercise. That kicked my ass. But as I made my way up the mountain, five or six riders were coming down. As I neared the top of the mountain, something occurred to me — I was thinking like a car driver, not a mountain biker. Surely there had to be a small path to the right or left of the gate that would allow me to continue on? Gates can’t stop no mountain biker!
I turned my bike around and started jamming down the mountain again. As I approached the gate I saw to the left of it a small path that would allow a hiker or mountain biker the chance to ride through. Search and rescue would not be needed that day!
I continued on down the mountain rather enjoying the rocky terrain and challenges the mountain presented. As the fire road let out into a suburban area, I realized I was maybe five blocks away from my cabin! Unfortunately my car was back at Snow Summit, so I took the roads back to pick up my car. All in all, especially because I decided to ride back up the mountain, I got a considerable amount of exercise.
And a considerable sun burn.
I was wearing a no-sleeve t-shirt and while I had put sun block on my arms, I forgot to put it on my back. And I didn’t exactly put enough on my arms, either. That coupled with UV rays being a bit more potent higher up meant I was in for some very serious pain. In the coming days the peeling and blistering would be no fun at all.
Once I was done with the mountain biking, it was about 6:30 and I made my way back to the cabin for more sitting in the hot tub — which I had to make considerably cooler with the burn — and the cooking of flesh. I bought some Filet Mignon the night before and BBQd up a nice meal of Filet Mignon, a baked potato and some salad. I spent the rest of the evening watching Season 3 episodes of “The West Wing� on DVD and reading more Harry Potter. It was a great day.
Sunday I woke up early, cleaned up the cabin and left around 10:30. Sunday was my day to do some shopping and explore Big Bear a bit. I drove over to Big Bear City and Sugar Loaf, only to discover that neither are worth visiting. Sugar Loaf is a pit and Big Bear City is only slightly better. The real action was all in Big Bear Lake.
I stopped by many stores as I drove around, a couple of really cool gift type shops, checked out the Village and did some “antiquing.� Well, not really. I went into a bunch of antique shops — and wow are the prices better up in Big Bear than in LA — but didn’t find anything I had to buy. There was a chair I considered, but I didn’t have space in the car. I drove around the lake a bit, which is gorgeous, snapped a few photos — Boulder Bay is just beautiful — and once I was done checking out stores I made my way home.
Boulder Creek in Big Bear
All in all it was a very restful weekend and really recharged the mental batteries. It reminded me that I not only need to take care of myself physically, but mentally as well. I’m a driven person, one who doesn’t stop thinking about work easily. I need to be reminded to relax. This weekend helped me see that I need to start taking care of myself better in many ways.